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Reinventing myself personal growth program
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Fear of abandonment
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Soul Mates and self love
arthritis chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia
Self Esteem
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White Light and healing energies
Spitituality without religeon
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Sex - What the women are saying now.
Money Prosperity Wealth
Parents. Who are these aliens?
Incest
Living in the shadows
Affirmations and Mind Power
Words as Medicine
Absent Healing and Chakra Balance
Better Questions Better Solutions
Are we thinking our own thoughts?
Beauty Myth
Inspirational quotes
Letter to My son
responses to articles
Songs to make your heart sing
Contact Sonya
personal growth Links
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Description of Articles
Reinventing myself personal growth program
Guided Meditation C.D.s
Now available in Paperback
Creative Visualization guided meditation techniques
How to Meditate, what is a healing meditation like
Weight Loss and  Emotional eating
Fear of abandonment
Stress reduction
Vital Energy oxygen therapy and breathing
Soul Mates and self love
arthritis chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia
Self Esteem
heartbreak
White Light and healing energies
Spitituality without religeon
Happiness
what is love
Sex - What the women are saying now.
Money Prosperity Wealth
Parents. Who are these aliens?
Incest
Living in the shadows
Affirmations and Mind Power
Words as Medicine
Absent Healing and Chakra Balance
Better Questions Better Solutions
Are we thinking our own thoughts?
Beauty Myth
Inspirational quotes
Letter to My son
responses to articles
Songs to make your heart sing
Contact Sonya
personal growth Links
Description of Articles
Reinventing myself personal growth program
Guided Meditation C.D.s
Now available in Paperback
Creative Visualization guided meditation techniques
How to Meditate, what is a healing meditation like
Weight Loss and  Emotional eating
Fear of abandonment
Stress reduction
Vital Energy oxygen therapy and breathing
Soul Mates and self love
arthritis chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia
Self Esteem
heartbreak
White Light and healing energies
Spitituality without religeon
Happiness
what is love
Sex - What the women are saying now.
Money Prosperity Wealth
Parents. Who are these aliens?
Incest
Living in the shadows
Affirmations and Mind Power
Words as Medicine
Absent Healing and Chakra Balance
Better Questions Better Solutions
Are we thinking our own thoughts?
Beauty Myth
Inspirational quotes
Letter to My son
responses to articles
Songs to make your heart sing
Contact Sonya
personal growth Links
Description of Articles
Reinventing myself personal growth program
Guided Meditation C.D.s
Now available in Paperback
Creative Visualization guided meditation techniques
How to Meditate, what is a healing meditation like
Weight Loss and  Emotional eating
Fear of abandonment
Stress reduction
Vital Energy oxygen therapy and breathing
Soul Mates and self love
arthritis chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia
Self Esteem
heartbreak
White Light and healing energies
Spitituality without religeon
Happiness
what is love
Sex - What the women are saying now.
Money Prosperity Wealth
Parents. Who are these aliens?
Incest
Living in the shadows
Affirmations and Mind Power
Words as Medicine
Absent Healing and Chakra Balance
Better Questions Better Solutions
Are we thinking our own thoughts?
Beauty Myth
Inspirational quotes
Letter to My son
responses to articles
Songs to make your heart sing
Contact Sonya
personal growth Links
Description of Articles
Reinventing myself personal growth program
Guided Meditation C.D.s
Now available in Paperback
Creative Visualization guided meditation techniques
How to Meditate, what is a healing meditation like
Weight Loss and  Emotional eating
Fear of abandonment
Stress reduction
Vital Energy oxygen therapy and breathing
Soul Mates and self love
arthritis chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia
Self Esteem
heartbreak
White Light and healing energies
Spitituality without religeon
Happiness
what is love
Sex - What the women are saying now.
Money Prosperity Wealth
Parents. Who are these aliens?
Incest
Living in the shadows
Affirmations and Mind Power
Words as Medicine
Absent Healing and Chakra Balance
Better Questions Better Solutions
Are we thinking our own thoughts?
Beauty Myth
Inspirational quotes
Letter to My son
responses to articles
Songs to make your heart sing
Contact Sonya
personal growth Links
Do you feel like a follower instead of a leader? Would you like to gain more
control of your life? Do people make many of your life decisions for you?
Would you like to have pride and faith in your decision-making? If you answer
‘yes’ to any of these then read on…

You do not have to be a leader of many to have a successful and fulfilling life,
but you must at least be your own boss in life. A lot of people have a lot of
advice or may even manipulate the decisions you make. Often they believe it is
in your best interest. Sometimes it is to benefit themselves.

Usually when someone tries to influence a decision of yours, they take the
stance of the decision which would benefit them if they were in your position.
However they are not you! Something which may be right for them is not
necessarily right for you. It is always worth listening to the advice of others as
you can get some good solutions to use. However it is your life, your decision,
and you who must face the consequences if things ‘go wrong’ (not that anything
is actually ‘wrong’ – there is usually a lot of good that comes from any
consequence if we learn from our mistakes and spot other opportunities that
arise as a result). Therefore, you should always make the decision yourself,
especially if there are manipulators in your life. Do you think that innovators
such as Edison, Einstein, Da Vinci or Mozart blindly followed others advice?

Many of us were conditioned in early life to surrender our power. Our parents,
family, teachers, society etc. often taught us to be followers rather than leaders.
Do any of these rules look familiar?

Be quiet
Don't get too big for your boots
Be seen and not heard
Think of others before you think of yourself
Be happy with what you have got
Don’t show off
Do as you are told
Don’t be a know it all
Don’t get too excited
Be modest
Do not answer back

These types of suggestions are typically bombarded into the brains of children
for many years on a daily basis. Whilst the intention is usually constructive, they
do not help in later life. They can leave some of us becoming dependent upon
someone else’s permission and opinions to lead us. Most people, for example,
are too afraid to quit their job and start their own business; too afraid to ask
their boss for a raise; too afraid to really ‘sell themselves’ at job interviews;
don’t believe they can (or should be) great at anything. Great people like
Nelson Mandella and Muhammed Ali were certainly not afraid to be great, be
noticed, and make a difference.

Instead of these limiting viewpoints, how about adopting these instead:

Be ambitious
Don't be modest
Think big
Be noticed
Be enthusiastic about your ideas
Be proud of yourself
Have confidence in your abilities
Be brave
Do not apologise if you have done nothing wrong

There is a great person in each and every one of us. It can be unlocked by
simply believing in ourselves, and having the courage to follow our ideas. What
use to the world is a shrinking violet? Does the world really admire these types
of people? Do you admire these people?

Let go of these limiting suggestions of the past and embrace these new more
positive ways of being. Go for the things you want in life. Be seen. Be heard.
Be proud. Be successful. You deserve it!

Jon Rhodes is a well respected UK hypnotherapist.  He runs the free website
http://www.freehypnosistreatment.co.uk  Click here for free hypnosis audio's,
and much more.
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