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Guided Meditation C.D.s
Now available in Paperback
Creative Visualization guided meditation techniques
How to Meditate, what is a healing meditation like
Weight Loss and  Emotional eating
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Stress reduction
Vital Energy oxygen therapy and breathing
Soul Mates and self love
arthritis chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia
Self Esteem
heartbreak
White Light and healing energies
Spitituality without religeon
Happiness
what is love
Sex - What the women are saying now.
psychic Cords
Money Prosperity Wealth
Parents. Who are these aliens?
Incest
Living in the shadows
Affirmations and Mind Power
Words as Medicine
Absent Healing and Chakra Balance
Better Questions Better Solutions
Are we thinking our own thoughts?
Beauty Myth
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Inspirational quotes
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Letter to My son
responses to articles
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Guided Meditation C.D.s
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Creative Visualization guided meditation techniques
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Fear of abandonment
Stress reduction
Vital Energy oxygen therapy and breathing
Soul Mates and self love
arthritis chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia
Self Esteem
heartbreak
White Light and healing energies
Spitituality without religeon
Happiness
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Sex - What the women are saying now.
psychic Cords
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Parents. Who are these aliens?
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Affirmations and Mind Power
Words as Medicine
Absent Healing and Chakra Balance
Better Questions Better Solutions
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Beauty Myth
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Letter to My son
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Guided Meditation C.D.s
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Creative Visualization guided meditation techniques
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Soul Mates and self love
arthritis chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia
Self Esteem
heartbreak
White Light and healing energies
Spitituality without religeon
Happiness
what is love
Sex - What the women are saying now.
psychic Cords
Money Prosperity Wealth
Parents. Who are these aliens?
Incest
Living in the shadows
Affirmations and Mind Power
Words as Medicine
Absent Healing and Chakra Balance
Better Questions Better Solutions
Are we thinking our own thoughts?
Beauty Myth
bipolar
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Letter to My son
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arthritis chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia
Self Esteem
heartbreak
White Light and healing energies
Spitituality without religeon
Happiness
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Sex - What the women are saying now.
psychic Cords
Money Prosperity Wealth
Parents. Who are these aliens?
Incest
Living in the shadows
Affirmations and Mind Power
Words as Medicine
Absent Healing and Chakra Balance
Better Questions Better Solutions
Are we thinking our own thoughts?
Beauty Myth
bipolar
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Letter to My son
responses to articles
Songs to make your heart sing
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The observant person will notice that pleasure during sex increases or decreases
according to the thoughts one is having. Behind every thought there is also a
corresponding intent. For every intent we hold, there is a corresponding psychic
effect created. So for the sake of our own pleasure, and also the pleasure of our
counterpart, Intent is a consideration that is very relevant. It is always worthwhile
to prove this point to yourself by watching how enjoyment, or any other condition
of life, is profoundly influenced by the intent held each moment. The Intent used by
the modern person during sex is very often a selfish one. This is to say they seek
pleasure only for themselves, even at the expense of their partner. Another common
Intent used during sex is what might be called “psychic vampirism” which is also
seen in ALL other social circumstances as well. Psychic vampirism is the practice
of taking energy from others, just as a parasite takes energy from the host creature
it lives within. In truth this is to be rightly considered a relatively hostile act,
because it can render very damaging physical, mental and emotional effects on the
victim. Because sex is an extremely dynamic exchange of energy, it is also an
excellent opportunity for the psychic vampire to draw away energy from the
unsuspecting. Such acts constitute poor intent and a general ignorance of what a
focus on unity and mutual empowerment is capable of. Psychic vampirism is the
opposite of the intent of spiritual progression. A more appropriate intent is one
which is simply neutral and not psychically aggressive. Sex under such an Intent is
also fairly common, and its benefits are “hit and miss” or random, depending upon
the “mood” of the participants. The most progressive intent however, is one which
seeks the greatest enjoyment and benefit for each person, without limit. With this
intent in place, especially in a spiritual context, there is literally no limit to the level
of enjoyment and consciousness that can take place between female and male. This
is the mutual ascension of Yin and Yang as One.

Mutual, progressive Intent creates correspondingly higher and higher states of
consciousness. When this intent is employed during sex, it becomes what might be
described as a form of mutual worship. In this way, one approaches the opposite
sex with reverence, as one might enter into a truly sacred temple in which only the
purest thoughts and feelings in the adoration of God are to be formed. When this
Intent is mutually held, a psychic reciprocation of a very high vibratory level is set
up. Pleasure, love and rapture travel back and forth with increasing tempo. As a
woman is raised by a mans spiritual adoration, her state of consciousness is
elevated. This can be particularly true during sex, because sex tends to opens all of
the chakras and encourages strong energy flow. From this raised position, a
woman can then raise her mans’ level of consciousness even more. When this
occurs he gains even more personal power. With greater personal power he raises
her again, and so forth, without limitation. With disciplined focus, such a technique
can be used to proceed to higher and higher levels of consciousness, or in other
words, degrees of mutual enlightenment. [Naturally, such things can also be done
without the sexual act.] This process may also be known as mutual ascension and
is among the more noble of the Tantric practices. Sex under these conditions need
not necessarily include orgasm, or it may delay orgasm for long periods until a
glorious finale is achieved together. The very spiritually minded may choose the no-
orgasm form of this practice even while having sex, and simply keep increasing
each others’ vibratory and energy levels indefinitely. In this practice a great deal of
physical movement is not generally encouraged, and it may take the form of group-
mind meditation and deep, subtle, mutual feeling. Such practices may also include
very dynamic sex and a great deal of physical movement, for the sake of increasing
the intensity of pleasure, or it may alternate between these two extremes. But
regardless of the technique, the higher focuses of love, rapture and mutual raising
should always be a strong consideration, in order to gain the best Tantric benefits.

The practice commonly known as “sex magick” also functions upon the same
psychic principles as Tantra and certain Kundalini focuses. Very often orgasm is
used to “send” an intention out into the environment, (or to another person/group
locally) with the effect of rendering the desired results. This is one form of what is
commonly known as a “spell”, (or the casting thereof). A couple may Intentionally
“cast a spell” on each other in this way for mutual benefit. Any strong feeling such
as orgasm can be used as an ideal “carrier wave”, (which transmits an intention)
and this fact is made particularly potent when a visualization is also held at the same
time. A couple may send their orgasm to each other simply by the intent to do so. A
visualization of surrounding ones’ counterpart with pleasure and spiritual benefit at
the peak of pleasure is even more useful. [Visualization founded upon an Intent is
known as a thoughtform, which then becomes a psychic/occult force that moves
to the destination the sender was focused upon, at the moment of its creation]
Interestingly, orgasm can also be sent out to the entire world, (with the globe being
visualized as seen from space). The intent employed can be that the sexual peak,
(high vibration) be used to raise world consciousness. A couple using this intent is
employing a very beneficial and advanced level of sex magick! In most cases
though, a couple will want to simply raise each other to unknown heights.

In all intimate relations, there exists a high degree of vulnerability, particularly at the
psychic level. To accomplish high Tantra, each person must open themselves
completely to the other without reservation. This makes them suseptible to not only
positive vibration and Intent, but also potentially damaging feelings of pain or fear,
even though every desire is in place to make the “Taoistic fusion” work. Each
person must be prepared to release pain and fear in this practice, and to absorb
such vibrations from their counterpart. The greater mastery involved here, is to not
be overwhelmed by these destructive emotions, and to transmute or transform them
into love, clarity and ecstasy. Thus, psychic alignment with another can not only be
rewarding, but also require a good deal of patience and spiritual work. It is
therefore useful to employ the intent of spiritual ministry when aligning with another
in this way, which is essentially no different than extending positive feelings or
council to someone in pain. To accomplish this we must also be able to transmute
our own pain and fear into higher vibrations/intentions. It is useful to mentally
prepare ourselves for the necessary state of being, that is open and freely giving. If
we are not capable of this, then how can we expect it from another? So let the
thought of High Tantra motivate you to do some inner transformation and spiritual
preparation. The more we raise our individual vibration and Intent, the more we
have to offer our sacred counterpart.

In the modern context the phrase, “making love” is a bit misleading to say the least.
In this context the usual case is not the making of love, but the making of pleasure
and sheer sensation. But in Western culture this trend is not particularly surprising,
since love and pleasure are no longer distinguished from one another. Most assume
that love is the feeling that results from the gratitude of the body, (cells) as a result
of sexual pleasure and polar balancing. But this should not in any way be confused
with love. When “making love” the focus should be in honest fact, exactly that, a
mutual, inner focus on the unified enhancement of higher and higher love states.
Even better is “making rapture”, a mutual focus on the communion of souls in
bodies, whose primary Intent is the merger of Cosmic Forces, (yin and yang).
Again, all of these “rewards” are gained by the right focusing of Intent. The intent
to gain spiritual communion with another is essentially the same as the intent to gain
pleasure, in that each are only a matter of decision. When we decide to take on a
spiritual focus, this conscious universe in which we live rewards us with the sweet
fruits of truthful living. This is what is known as “living in accord with natural law”
because spiritual progress is evolutionary, just like nature.

Thus, the most lasting and satisfying relationships are based upon a spiritual
intention, first and foremost. By focusing on the spiritual together, we serve a
higher cause than the mere satisfaction of small, personal aims. Spiritual cause
becomes the source of mutual unity and action, providing greater empowerment at
all levels of body, mind and spirit. Such a focus tends to preclude the usual
emotional leaning upon one another, in the ignorant hope that ones’ counterpart can
take up the slack in ones’ own life. This attitude is the most common recipe for
disaster and disappointment. As responsible spiritual practitioners, we do not take
our weaknesses to our mate like a begging bowl is presented for alms. We take our
strengths and aspirations to our lover/friend, in the wise knowledge that what is
given, is also received. This is the Karma of relationship, and it is an unavoidable
principle of natural law.

A spiritual lover is not a refuge from the world in which to hide. They are an
opportunity for growth and sheer bliss in the unity of progressive intent. Our love
for another can be as the fresh thrill of awe, during a clear spring day in the deepest
woods. Our mutual adoration is as the stirring of deep celestial energies in the midst
of the creation of all things. Our counterpart can be the very presence of God
incarnated, in a passion-filled, spiritual alliance.

In mutual pleasure we are filled with ecstatic life. In mutual love we begin to radiate
a signal of pure, crystalline grace to a world in pain and need of spiritual ministry.
In mutual rapture, we are raised together into the bliss of angelic realms, and the
abode of the Masters of all time. We become the seers and prophets of cosmic
design, and can speak therefrom with experience. Such perspective adds clearer
meaning to the term “soulmate”. Let us not underestimate this opportunity in the
Tao! Let us seek only the highest in ourselves and each other, thereby fulfilling the
very Plan of Creation!

Article by Matthew Webb
© 2000 BY MATTHEW WEBB AND COURTNEY SCHMIDT
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The World Mind Society, and Matthew Webb