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Spitituality without religeon
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psychic Cords
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Parents. Who are these aliens?
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Words as Medicine
Absent Healing and Chakra Balance
Better Questions Better Solutions
Are we thinking our own thoughts?
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Guided Meditation C.D.s
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Creative Visualization guided meditation techniques
How to Meditate, what is a healing meditation like
Weight Loss and  Emotional eating
Fear of abandonment
Stress reduction
Vital Energy oxygen therapy and breathing
Soul Mates and self love
arthritis chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia
Self Esteem
heartbreak
White Light and healing energies
Spitituality without religeon
Happiness
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Sex - What the women are saying now.
psychic Cords
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Parents. Who are these aliens?
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Words as Medicine
Absent Healing and Chakra Balance
Better Questions Better Solutions
Are we thinking our own thoughts?
Beauty Myth
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Letter to My son
responses to articles
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Soul Mates and self love
arthritis chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia
Self Esteem
heartbreak
White Light and healing energies
Spitituality without religeon
Happiness
what is love
Sex - What the women are saying now.
psychic Cords
Money Prosperity Wealth
Parents. Who are these aliens?
Incest
Living in the shadows
Affirmations and Mind Power
Words as Medicine
Absent Healing and Chakra Balance
Better Questions Better Solutions
Are we thinking our own thoughts?
Beauty Myth
bipolar
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Letter to My son
responses to articles
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Soul Mates and self love
arthritis chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia
Self Esteem
heartbreak
White Light and healing energies
Spitituality without religeon
Happiness
what is love
Sex - What the women are saying now.
psychic Cords
Money Prosperity Wealth
Parents. Who are these aliens?
Incest
Living in the shadows
Affirmations and Mind Power
Words as Medicine
Absent Healing and Chakra Balance
Better Questions Better Solutions
Are we thinking our own thoughts?
Beauty Myth
bipolar
Inspirational quotes
Im right you're wrong
Letter to My son
responses to articles
Songs to make your heart sing
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Most people are unaware of how psychic they really are. There are many ways
to describe psychic experiences but the simplest definition is: knowing something
through sensing. In effect, it is an energetic language. We receive information
through our 5 physical senses (sight, sound, touch, taste and smell) as well as
through intuition, body language, telepathy, empathy, imagination or primal
instinct. Some may refer to any of these senses as the sixth sense. Sometimes
we just know stuff; we don’t know how we know it but, a thought, feeling or
image grabs our attention and we just know it is right or true.

The difficulty is that we sometimes try to be psychic and tune into things; we try
to guess things, like lottery numbers, but it doesn’t work. This is because we are
using will or intellect; we are consciously thinking or using our will. Psychic
energy is free-flowing energy, more like daydreaming than thinking conscious
thoughts. Psychic impressions are received through sensing rather than thinking,
so it occurs more frequently, when we are relaxed and passively aware rather
than actively focusing.

One of the most interesting aspects of psychic language is the bond between
mother and child, lovers, best friends or siblings; especially twins. A psychic
bond is like an umbilical cord between two people which sends and receives
information. It’s a bit like a telephone in which thoughts and feelings are
exchanged. In healthy relationships this is a wonderful thing; love, protection,
healing, care and intentions can be sent and received.

To some degree we can look at blood relatives as having similar genes, history
and habits to explain this degree of attunement.

This does not explain the psychic bond between lovers; in which the psychic
connection is just as strong. New lovers are often amazed at how much they
have in common with each other. New relationships reveal so many uncanny co-
incidences. There appears to be a magical, mystical, secret world that only they
share. Lovers feel each others energy; they can pull each other to themselves.
They talk to each other through their minds and visualize being together when
they are apart. We might reduce this to merely fantasising about each other, but
it really is much more than that. When lovers become sexually involved the
exchange of energy becomes even greater, and in many situations, the bond
becomes an addiction.

We are all exchanging psychic energy with each other all of the time. We might
feel creepy by sitting too close to a stranger on the train. Sometimes we just
click with someone within minutes of meeting them. This sort of thing is going
on with us all of the time to some degree, although we are usually unaware of it,
and mostly it’s unimportant and fleeting. When our energy creates a bond with
people in a healthy way it builds trust, affection, support and protection.

In a casual situation our energy just scans another’s, but the closer we are to
someone the more connected or attuned we become. Lovers exchange a huge
amount of energy and over time that energy merges into each other. This can be
wonderful, as the lovers actually feed love and sexuality into one and other. They
can become high or blissed out, energizing each other. This is very much the
case at the ‘in love’ stage of a relationship. Visualizing, fantasising, daydreaming
and mind-talking are very common – very real and very bonding.

Throughout the ages, psychics and mystics have referred to psychic cords. You
might imagine them as golden cords which connect people via charka centres;
kind of like a direct phone line connected to receiving stations within the physical
body. Thoughts, feelings and images are sent and received via these cords. In a
healthy relationship this can be seen as a system which bonds and supports. In
an unhealthy relationship this bond can become a form of bondage – a controlling
addiction.

Now before you go panicking about someone deliberately sending you harmful
thoughts and feelings you should know that it is very unlikely. It’s the same
problem as guessing lottery numbers; once the intention becomes a conscious
thought it loses its psychic frequency. If someone deliberately or consciously
tries to transmit a demand, it is an entirely different type of energy. If someone
consciously wishes you harm, it will be creative only in terms of rebounding
back to them. We don’t just send thoughts - we also attract them at the same
time. If, for example, I was to send you thoughts of love and good fortune, you
would be receptive to receiving this, as it’s compatible to your own desires. I
would also receive this because this is my command, my intention or my focus-
this is the technique of attraction. However, if I consciously tried to send you
sadness, it would be a very weak signal your end, but very strong my end. I
would make myself very unhappy and you would probably not have anything
more than a fleeting thought.

The key words here are deliberate or consciously; harmful thoughts and
emotions can be sent and received, but not at a conscious level. If two lovers
have established strong psychic cords then they will remain tuned into each other
for some time (sometimes years) after they break up. One person may have had
closure and moved on, but the other is left broken-hearted, abandoned and
confused. The injured person may obsess or pine over the lost lover and it is that
emotional energy that pulls on the others energy.

Let’s call them Bill and Jane. Bill fell out of love with Jane a few months before
he broke up with her. In that time he prepared for the end and resolved his
feelings – he had closure. He was anxious to get free from Jane and was feeling
smothered by her and guilty about her. To him, the break up was like a breath of
fresh air and he was excited about meeting other women and doing other things.
Jane couldn’t believe it, she had so many expectations and needs; Bill had
become her whole life. Jane couldn’t and wouldn’t let go; she dreamt about him,
cried over him and obsessed about him to such a degree that almost all of her
thoughts and feelings were about him.

Bill began to feel very tired and became touchy for no explainable reason. He
found himself thinking about Jane quite a lot. He felt guilty even though he had
no reason to feel this way. She showed up in his thoughts and dreams and she
would cling to him and beg him to come back. He felt angry and irritable a lot of
the time, he had headaches and trouble getting to sleep at night. He couldn’t
define it, but he somehow thought Jane had something to do with this.
Sometimes he would think about her and feel repulsed. He had wanted to remain
friends with Jane, but found that he felt retracted and tense when he tried to call
her.

Jane was having a much worse time of it. She wondered if she would have a
nervous breakdown. She could not stop thinking about Bill, she sensed him near
her, imagined his voice, everything reminded her of him. She silently begged him
to love her again. She hated him and wanted to hurt him, she imagined him
becoming ill so he would need her. Because Jane’s thoughts were so strongly
charged by emotion, Bill was tuning into them, and feeling them within his own
body. Because it didn’t make logical sense to him he dismissed his thoughts
about Jane and just assumed that the thoughts and feelings were his own.
Because Jane was trying to pull Bill back to her, she was actually draining him of
energy. Due to the intensity of her emotions, she was also bleeding out her own
energy.  She became exhausted, depressed, unable to concentrate, accident
prone, couldn’t eat and became very weak. The worst she felt, the more she
needed Bill. Bill became her medicine; her lifeline, he was her obsession and
addiction. Ironically, she believed that this desperation was profound love.
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