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Most people are unaware of how psychic they really are. There are many
ways to describe psychic experiences but the simplest definition is:
knowing something through sensing. In effect, it is an energetic
language. We receive information through our 5 physical senses (sight,
sound, touch, taste and smell) as well as through intuition, body
language, telepathy, empathy, imagination or primal instinct. Some may
refer to any of these senses as the sixth sense. Sometimes we just know
stuff; we don’t know how we know it but, a thought, feeling or image grabs
our attention and we just know it is right or true.

The difficulty is that we sometimes try to be psychic and tune into things;
we try to guess things, like lottery numbers, but it doesn’t work. This is
because we are using will or intellect; we are consciously thinking or
using our will. Psychic energy is free-flowing energy, more like
daydreaming than thinking conscious thoughts. Psychic impressions are
received through sensing rather than thinking, so it occurs more
frequently, when we are relaxed and passively aware rather than actively
focusing.

One of the most interesting aspects of psychic language is the bond
between mother and child, lovers, best friends or siblings; especially
twins. A psychic bond is like an umbilical cord between two people which
sends and receives information. It’s a bit like a telephone in which
thoughts and feelings are exchanged. In healthy relationships this is a
wonderful thing; love, protection, healing, care and intentions can be
sent and received.

To some degree we can look at blood relatives as having similar genes,
history and habits to explain this degree of attunement.

This does not explain the psychic bond between lovers; in which the
psychic connection is just as strong. New lovers are often amazed at how
much they have in common with each other. New relationships reveal so
many uncanny co-incidences. There appears to be a magical, mystical,
secret world that only they share. Lovers feel each others energy; they
can pull each other to themselves. They talk to each other through their
minds and visualize being together when they are apart. We might
reduce this to merely fantasising about each other, but it really is much
more than that. When lovers become sexually involved the exchange of
energy becomes even greater, and in many situations, the bond
becomes an addiction.

We are all exchanging psychic energy with each other all of the time. We
might feel creepy by sitting too close to a stranger on the train.
Sometimes we just click with someone within minutes of meeting them.
This sort of thing is going on with us all of the time to some degree,
although we are usually unaware of it, and mostly it’s unimportant and
fleeting. When our energy creates a bond with people in a healthy way it
builds trust, affection, support and protection.

In a casual situation our energy just scans another’s, but the closer we
are to someone the more connected or attuned we become. Lovers
exchange a huge amount of energy and over time that energy merges
into each other. This can be wonderful, as the lovers actually feed love
and sexuality into one and other. They can become high or blissed out,
energizing each other. This is very much the case at the ‘in love’ stage of
a relationship. Visualizing, fantasising, daydreaming and mind-talking are
very common – very real and very bonding.

Throughout the ages, psychics and mystics have referred to psychic
cords. You might imagine them as golden cords which connect people via
charka centres; kind of like a direct phone line connected to receiving
stations within the physical body. Thoughts, feelings and images are sent
and received via these cords. In a healthy relationship this can be seen
as a system which bonds and supports. In an unhealthy relationship this
bond can become a form of bondage – a controlling addiction.

Now before you go panicking about someone deliberately sending you
harmful thoughts and feelings you should know that it is very unlikely. It’s
the same problem as guessing lottery numbers; once the intention
becomes a conscious thought it loses its psychic frequency. If someone
deliberately or consciously tries to transmit a demand, it is an entirely
different type of energy. If someone consciously wishes you harm, it will
be creative only in terms of rebounding back to them. We don’t just send
thoughts - we also attract them at the same time. If, for example, I was to
send you thoughts of love and good fortune, you would be receptive to
receiving this, as it’s compatible to your own desires. I would also receive
this because this is my command, my intention or my focus- this is the
technique of attraction. However, if I consciously tried to send you
sadness, it would be a very weak signal your end, but very strong my
end. I would make myself very unhappy and you would probably not have
anything more than a fleeting thought.

The key words here are deliberate or consciously; harmful thoughts and
emotions can be sent and received, but not at a conscious level. If two
lovers have established strong psychic cords then they will remain tuned
into each other for some time (sometimes years) after they break up.
One person may have had closure and moved on, but the other is left
broken-hearted, abandoned and confused. The injured person may
obsess or pine over the lost lover and it is that emotional energy that
pulls on the others energy.

Let’s call them Bill and Jane. Bill fell out of love with Jane a few months
before he broke up with her. In that time he prepared for the end and
resolved his feelings – he had closure. He was anxious to get free from
Jane and was feeling smothered by her and guilty about her. To him, the
break up was like a breath of fresh air and he was excited about meeting
other women and doing other things. Jane couldn’t believe it, she had so
many expectations and needs; Bill had become her whole life. Jane
couldn’t and wouldn’t let go; she dreamt about him, cried over him and
obsessed about him to such a degree that almost all of her thoughts and
feelings were about him.

Bill began to feel very tired and became touchy for no explainable
reason. He found himself thinking about Jane quite a lot. He felt guilty
even though he had no reason to feel this way. She showed up in his
thoughts and dreams and she would cling to him and beg him to come
back. He felt angry and irritable a lot of the time, he had headaches and
trouble getting to sleep at night. He couldn’t define it, but he somehow
thought Jane had something to do with this. Sometimes he would think
about her and feel repulsed. He had wanted to remain friends with Jane,
but found that he felt retracted and tense when he tried to call her.

Jane was having a much worse time of it. She wondered if she would
have a nervous breakdown. She could not stop thinking about Bill, she
sensed him near her, imagined his voice, everything reminded her of
him. She silently begged him to love her again. She hated him and
wanted to hurt him, she imagined him becoming ill so he would need her.
Because Jane’s thoughts were so strongly charged by emotion, Bill was
tuning into them, and feeling them within his own body. Because it didn’t
make logical sense to him he dismissed his thoughts about Jane and just
assumed that the thoughts and feelings were his own. Because Jane was
trying to pull Bill back to her, she was actually draining him of energy.
Due to the intensity of her emotions, she was also bleeding out her own
energy.  She became exhausted, depressed, unable to concentrate,
accident prone, couldn’t eat and became very weak. The worst she felt,
the more she needed Bill. Bill became her medicine; her lifeline, he was
her obsession and addiction. Ironically, she believed that this
desperation was profound love.
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