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Being loving is the secret to female sexuality.
Before a man even thinks about touching a woman, he should turn his attention to her – I mean
the bits above the neck. Far too many woman comment on this one problem. If your intention is to
make your woman feel rushed, disrespected, anxious and tense, then go right ahead and take a
grab between the legs. I think you might find that by diving into the knickers without first
acknowledging there is a woman attached, can cause a woman to have ‘A very serious headache’.
In some cases, the headache can be so severe that her legs will lock together and she will roll
over and play dead.
There is a transition period required to go from daytime thinking to bedroom thinking. We all need
time to wind down and tune into our partners. Soft conversation with gentle stroking allows us to
relax into each other. Gently snuggling into each other and casually running fingers softly along a
face or arms or back has a soothing effect. Soft, gentle or playful kisses and then a little more
conversation or silence; a woman needs to feel she is the focus of your attention. What she thinks
and how she feels will open her up or close her down. If a woman feels she could be anyone or no
one, you will close her down. If a woman feels that she is nothing more than a vagina with a body,
she will close you down. A considerate lover, indeed a good lover, will know that some women are
self-conscious and sexually insecure. The greatest turn on for a woman is when a man cares
about her, treats her like she is beautiful and highly desirable. If you really want to make a woman
purr, then you had better assure her that everything about her is special, exciting and desirable.
Another big mistake men make, is, grabbing a woman’s hand and placing it on his penis as a big
hint to get going, or, worse still, grabbing her head and pushing it down under the sheets. Women
know they take longer to arouse then a man does, so no woman wants to encourage a man to be
overly stimulated before she has a chance to get going. Women need more stimulation to catch
up, and a smart man should know this. When a woman is horny she will respond by reaching out
and wanting to play with your penis. When a woman is really horny, she will be actively
encouraging you, her body will be responding to you, her breathing will synchronize with you, and
she will know what you want and how you want it.
Kissing
Women love good kissing. A good kiss sends a shiver right through a woman’s body and makes
her toes curl. Men can often overlook the power of a good kiss and focus far too much on
screwing. Men will practise and experiment with all kinds of positions and techniques when it comes
to thrusting, but sadly they don’t perfect the art of kissing. Kissing is such an intimate thing that it is
not just highly erotic, but really conveys a depth of feeling that screwing cannot. It’s interesting to
note, that most prostitutes will do almost anything sexually, but most will not kiss a client. This is
because kissing is far too personal and intimate. Kissing someone you love is unbelievably
beautiful and a huge turn on. Kisses are also hard to lie with, and women will sense true feelings
through kissing. The art of kissing is almost as important as sexual technique. Good kissing also
requires a slow and gentle start. Lips need to be seduced and approached gently, softly and
teasingly. Dry closed lips, hard smashing and grinding of teeth or fat wet tongues barging in and
choking a person are not appreciated. Cutting off someone’s air supply or spinning your head like
an electric mixer won’t do it either.
Kissing can start by softly and casually touching your lips to your partner’s neck when you first
cuddle in together, or light, gentle kisses anywhere on the face or near the ear. Being kissed near
the ear, or a soft moist tongue touching an ear, is a real turn on, but be careful not to breathe too
hard. Really, very softly near the ears, because a big, fat, wet tongue inside the ear is really, really
loud. Before you attempt a mouth-to-mouth kiss, you need to moisten your own lips as dry lips do
not slide and the kiss will lose its fluidity. A light, gentle brush of the tongue over your partner’s
lips, is not only a great turn on, but also moistens their lips to reciprocate. Kisses can be
passionate and deep, but you need to work up to this first and the best gauge is your partner’s
response.
Touch
Gently stroking your lover’s body can greatly increase arousal and is also perceived as caring and
loving. Too light a touch can be ticklish and distracting, and absent-mindedly touching one spot will
be annoying or numbing. Too hard and too fast is just plain clumsy, and when touching the
breasts it can be painful. Kissing and licking nipples is highly arousing for most women, but
clamping on like you’re a deprived breast fed baby is a turn off. Kneading breasts like bread-
making dough is not too good either. In case I need to say it again, it is soft, gentle and slow as
you are still seducing the woman here. Passion and power will come, and yes, there is a place for
hard, fast and intense application, but not in the initial stages. A woman will beg for more and
respond with all she’s got after you have opened her up.
Seduction and foreplay are about opening her up.
By now, your woman will probably be responding. She may be touching your body, her breathing
may be synchronized with yours and she may have been responding to your kissing. You may be
hearing some soft moans, or gentle words, her body should be moving in response to your touch.
Now, you can move your hand down, but don’t dive in, lightly run your fingers through pubic hair or
across thighs, and gently move between the thighs. All of this needs to be fluid - gently ease your
fingers between her legs. A very definite sign of acceptance is if she opens her legs or hopefully
they may have opened before you arrived. As you slide your fingers into her, she should be wet. If
she isn’t, then you have not yet been given any invitation, so keep touching and perhaps go back
and add some additional kissing. If she is wet, then you take the moistness and slide it up and
around the clitoris. Fingers need to slide across or around a clitoris, they must never press or
pinch. You might consider the clitoris to be the doorbell of the vagina but it is not. This is highly
sensitive and responds well to the softness of a tongue, or a finger that moves very, very softly. In
a highly aroused state, the clitoris will become erect. Keep going back to the vaginal opening and
gathering more moisture and spreading that moisture across and around the entire area. During
this stage, the woman should have been playing with you and you should now be hard and erect. If
oral sex is on the menu, now, is an ideal time. For many people, oral sex is highly intimate and
requires a great deal of trust, so, once again I stress the importance of empathy, tune-in and pay
attention to your responses. This needs to be performed gently, no teeth or biting, unless
requested.
Now is your entry time and this should also be a smooth transition. Some men feel compelled to
dive in hands free and too often they miss and stab their mate. You really don’t need to impress a
woman with this ability. No woman cares about your guiding your penis in by feeling your way.
Kissing a woman passionately at this point is a great idea, as it’s exciting to have a tongue enter
your mouth at the same time a penis enters a vagina. It also re-affirms to the woman that you are
still connected to her and haven’t forgotten her, now that she has let you in. Hard, deep thrusts or
gentle teasing, or mini-thrusts are a matter of choice and responses. The actual lovemaking
should be left to your own body and the responses of your partner. This is the dance, and you will
do well to get your own ideas out of the way and allow your body to tell you what it wants.
To return to Tantra tradition, you should allow your attention to go to your heart, and imagine that
love is flowing from your heart into your lovers. You imagine or focus on that love moving down her
spine through her vagina, and up through your penis back into your heart. This is not just
extremely connecting, but also allows sexual energy to rise through your body rather than build
exclusively in the genital areas. Your lover should also be imagining the same cycle of love and
ideally your breathing should be synchronized. Your breath can be in on her out breath, or you
may both breathe in and out in unison. Breathing increases stamina, synchronises rhythm, and
helps to move energy throughout your body.
Looking into your partner’s eyes for as long as you are comfortable is deeply connecting and
conveys your love. Speaking softly, honestly and lovingly also increases and maintains your
connection. You will need to pay some attention to thrusting, as it’s important to stop or slow down
when you feel near orgasm. You need to let your excitement decrease, but not so much that you
lose your erection or interest. It is very tempting to cum when you hit your first peak, you really will
want to drive yourself home - but don’t.
By allowing your excitement to decrease and then gently rebuilding it, you will take yourself and
your partner to an increased level of excitement. We usually keep our sexual energy in the pelvic
area, but by slowing or stopping movement and then mentally drawing that energy up through you
and out through your heart, you are filling the whole body with orgasmic energy. At first, you may
only be able to do this once or twice as it may become too much and the desire to go with it can be
too great - that’s O.K -you will certainly have a deeper, longer, and more powerful orgasm than
you may have experienced before. However, with practice, you will find it easier to last longer, and
the longer you delay orgasm, the more you build energy, and this energy can be taken from the
pelvic area and channelled throughout the body.
Click the Next Button to go to part 4
Before a man even thinks about touching a woman, he should turn his attention to her – I mean
the bits above the neck. Far too many woman comment on this one problem. If your intention is to
make your woman feel rushed, disrespected, anxious and tense, then go right ahead and take a
grab between the legs. I think you might find that by diving into the knickers without first
acknowledging there is a woman attached, can cause a woman to have ‘A very serious headache’.
In some cases, the headache can be so severe that her legs will lock together and she will roll
over and play dead.
There is a transition period required to go from daytime thinking to bedroom thinking. We all need
time to wind down and tune into our partners. Soft conversation with gentle stroking allows us to
relax into each other. Gently snuggling into each other and casually running fingers softly along a
face or arms or back has a soothing effect. Soft, gentle or playful kisses and then a little more
conversation or silence; a woman needs to feel she is the focus of your attention. What she thinks
and how she feels will open her up or close her down. If a woman feels she could be anyone or no
one, you will close her down. If a woman feels that she is nothing more than a vagina with a body,
she will close you down. A considerate lover, indeed a good lover, will know that some women are
self-conscious and sexually insecure. The greatest turn on for a woman is when a man cares
about her, treats her like she is beautiful and highly desirable. If you really want to make a woman
purr, then you had better assure her that everything about her is special, exciting and desirable.
Another big mistake men make, is, grabbing a woman’s hand and placing it on his penis as a big
hint to get going, or, worse still, grabbing her head and pushing it down under the sheets. Women
know they take longer to arouse then a man does, so no woman wants to encourage a man to be
overly stimulated before she has a chance to get going. Women need more stimulation to catch
up, and a smart man should know this. When a woman is horny she will respond by reaching out
and wanting to play with your penis. When a woman is really horny, she will be actively
encouraging you, her body will be responding to you, her breathing will synchronize with you, and
she will know what you want and how you want it.
Kissing
Women love good kissing. A good kiss sends a shiver right through a woman’s body and makes
her toes curl. Men can often overlook the power of a good kiss and focus far too much on
screwing. Men will practise and experiment with all kinds of positions and techniques when it comes
to thrusting, but sadly they don’t perfect the art of kissing. Kissing is such an intimate thing that it is
not just highly erotic, but really conveys a depth of feeling that screwing cannot. It’s interesting to
note, that most prostitutes will do almost anything sexually, but most will not kiss a client. This is
because kissing is far too personal and intimate. Kissing someone you love is unbelievably
beautiful and a huge turn on. Kisses are also hard to lie with, and women will sense true feelings
through kissing. The art of kissing is almost as important as sexual technique. Good kissing also
requires a slow and gentle start. Lips need to be seduced and approached gently, softly and
teasingly. Dry closed lips, hard smashing and grinding of teeth or fat wet tongues barging in and
choking a person are not appreciated. Cutting off someone’s air supply or spinning your head like
an electric mixer won’t do it either.
Kissing can start by softly and casually touching your lips to your partner’s neck when you first
cuddle in together, or light, gentle kisses anywhere on the face or near the ear. Being kissed near
the ear, or a soft moist tongue touching an ear, is a real turn on, but be careful not to breathe too
hard. Really, very softly near the ears, because a big, fat, wet tongue inside the ear is really, really
loud. Before you attempt a mouth-to-mouth kiss, you need to moisten your own lips as dry lips do
not slide and the kiss will lose its fluidity. A light, gentle brush of the tongue over your partner’s
lips, is not only a great turn on, but also moistens their lips to reciprocate. Kisses can be
passionate and deep, but you need to work up to this first and the best gauge is your partner’s
response.
Touch
Gently stroking your lover’s body can greatly increase arousal and is also perceived as caring and
loving. Too light a touch can be ticklish and distracting, and absent-mindedly touching one spot will
be annoying or numbing. Too hard and too fast is just plain clumsy, and when touching the
breasts it can be painful. Kissing and licking nipples is highly arousing for most women, but
clamping on like you’re a deprived breast fed baby is a turn off. Kneading breasts like bread-
making dough is not too good either. In case I need to say it again, it is soft, gentle and slow as
you are still seducing the woman here. Passion and power will come, and yes, there is a place for
hard, fast and intense application, but not in the initial stages. A woman will beg for more and
respond with all she’s got after you have opened her up.
Seduction and foreplay are about opening her up.
By now, your woman will probably be responding. She may be touching your body, her breathing
may be synchronized with yours and she may have been responding to your kissing. You may be
hearing some soft moans, or gentle words, her body should be moving in response to your touch.
Now, you can move your hand down, but don’t dive in, lightly run your fingers through pubic hair or
across thighs, and gently move between the thighs. All of this needs to be fluid - gently ease your
fingers between her legs. A very definite sign of acceptance is if she opens her legs or hopefully
they may have opened before you arrived. As you slide your fingers into her, she should be wet. If
she isn’t, then you have not yet been given any invitation, so keep touching and perhaps go back
and add some additional kissing. If she is wet, then you take the moistness and slide it up and
around the clitoris. Fingers need to slide across or around a clitoris, they must never press or
pinch. You might consider the clitoris to be the doorbell of the vagina but it is not. This is highly
sensitive and responds well to the softness of a tongue, or a finger that moves very, very softly. In
a highly aroused state, the clitoris will become erect. Keep going back to the vaginal opening and
gathering more moisture and spreading that moisture across and around the entire area. During
this stage, the woman should have been playing with you and you should now be hard and erect. If
oral sex is on the menu, now, is an ideal time. For many people, oral sex is highly intimate and
requires a great deal of trust, so, once again I stress the importance of empathy, tune-in and pay
attention to your responses. This needs to be performed gently, no teeth or biting, unless
requested.
Now is your entry time and this should also be a smooth transition. Some men feel compelled to
dive in hands free and too often they miss and stab their mate. You really don’t need to impress a
woman with this ability. No woman cares about your guiding your penis in by feeling your way.
Kissing a woman passionately at this point is a great idea, as it’s exciting to have a tongue enter
your mouth at the same time a penis enters a vagina. It also re-affirms to the woman that you are
still connected to her and haven’t forgotten her, now that she has let you in. Hard, deep thrusts or
gentle teasing, or mini-thrusts are a matter of choice and responses. The actual lovemaking
should be left to your own body and the responses of your partner. This is the dance, and you will
do well to get your own ideas out of the way and allow your body to tell you what it wants.
To return to Tantra tradition, you should allow your attention to go to your heart, and imagine that
love is flowing from your heart into your lovers. You imagine or focus on that love moving down her
spine through her vagina, and up through your penis back into your heart. This is not just
extremely connecting, but also allows sexual energy to rise through your body rather than build
exclusively in the genital areas. Your lover should also be imagining the same cycle of love and
ideally your breathing should be synchronized. Your breath can be in on her out breath, or you
may both breathe in and out in unison. Breathing increases stamina, synchronises rhythm, and
helps to move energy throughout your body.
Looking into your partner’s eyes for as long as you are comfortable is deeply connecting and
conveys your love. Speaking softly, honestly and lovingly also increases and maintains your
connection. You will need to pay some attention to thrusting, as it’s important to stop or slow down
when you feel near orgasm. You need to let your excitement decrease, but not so much that you
lose your erection or interest. It is very tempting to cum when you hit your first peak, you really will
want to drive yourself home - but don’t.
By allowing your excitement to decrease and then gently rebuilding it, you will take yourself and
your partner to an increased level of excitement. We usually keep our sexual energy in the pelvic
area, but by slowing or stopping movement and then mentally drawing that energy up through you
and out through your heart, you are filling the whole body with orgasmic energy. At first, you may
only be able to do this once or twice as it may become too much and the desire to go with it can be
too great - that’s O.K -you will certainly have a deeper, longer, and more powerful orgasm than
you may have experienced before. However, with practice, you will find it easier to last longer, and
the longer you delay orgasm, the more you build energy, and this energy can be taken from the
pelvic area and channelled throughout the body.
Click the Next Button to go to part 4
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